英语翻译Is Money a major Conflicting Issue in Your Relationship?

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Is Money a major Conflicting Issue in Your Relationship?
I have a hard time talking to my wife about money.She says it makes her nervous.We relate to money so differently.Growing up,money was always there for me,my family had plenty.Hers was always in debt.Owing money scares her but it doesn't bother me at all.I'm confident I'll pay it back eventually.
When my wife puts pressure on me to go out and find work,I just want to go to bed and lie down.I can't handle it when people put pressure on me; I either get depressed or rebel.It's probably because my mother was all over me,trying to make me do whatever she wanted.I'm still rebelling against her.I just don't like doing things when someone else is trying to force me to do them.
To me,living for money means being controlled and confined,which I've been fighting all my life.I'm a free spirit; I want to be free to do what my heart tells me.If you're only working for money,you're either anxious because you don't have enough of it or you're working at something you don't enjoy because you want the income it brings.
But Mary thinks that because I don't make as much money as she wants,I'm a failure.Obviously,that's hard for me to take.And in our society a lot of people would say she's right.The fact that I bring in at least half the income of the house is irrelevant.I guess one of my problems is that I've always been a rebel.What society says is “normal” has never impressed me.
In fact,I wouldn't care if Mary made all the money.Now I do half the housework and take care of the kids when she's at work.If she made more money,and liked her job,I'd be happy to stay home with the kids and do all the housework.
She needs to understand that I'm not like other people.And that's why she loved me.That's what attracted her to me.I don't want to hurt her,but I can't sell my soul to make money.What the neighbors think doesn't bother me.
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1个回答 分类:英语 2014-10-11

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在你的交际中,金钱是引起争端的主要因素吗?
我和我太太谈到钱的时候总是很困难.她说这叫她紧张.我俩跟金钱的关系截然不同.在我成长过程中总是有钱的,我家里很有钱.她家却总是负债累累.欠钱使她惊慌,却一点也不会让我烦心.我很自信我最终是会偿还的.
当我太太给我施压,让我出去找工作时,我只想上床躺下.当别人给我施加压力的时候我没法应付,我要么变得沮丧,要么反抗.这也许是因为我妈妈一直掌控着我,试图让我做她想让我做的任何事情.我现在还在反抗她.我就是不喜欢做别人强迫我做的事.
对于我来说,为钱而活意味着被人控制和局限着,这是我一辈子都在反抗的东西.我是个无拘无束的人,我想要自由的做那些我内心想做的事.如果你仅仅为了钱而工作,你要么为了没有足够的钱而焦虑,要么是在为了收入而做自己不喜欢的事.
但是玛丽认为我很失败,因为我挣不到她想要的那么多钱.显然,对我来说这很难接受.在我们这个社会很多人会说她是对的.而这个家至少一半收入是我挣来的,这个事实却被忽略了.我想我的问题之一是,我一直是一个叛逆者.社会认为“正常”的事情对我来说没什么印象.
事实上,如果玛丽挣了所有的钱我也不介意.现在当她在工作的时候,我做一半的家务并照顾孩子.如果她挣更多的钱,并且喜欢她的工作,我会很乐意和孩子们呆在家里并做完全部家务.
她需要理解,我不像其他人那样.这一点也是她爱我、被我吸引的原因.我不想伤害她,但我不能为赚钱而出卖灵魂.邻居们怎么想的一点也不能烦到我.
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