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everyone has his own secret and everyone needs some private space.
besides,trust is the basis of true love.to love is to understand,to trust and to forgive.if he or she really has a secret that you want to know ,do not find it out by yourself ,but try to communicate with him or her.for frankness is another basis of love.you can tell him or her your love and your concern for him/her .
i believe,in this way ,every problem would be smoothly solved