请问she is afraid to give to herself.

请问she is afraid to give to herself.
全句是这样子的
When a person is wronged,she goes into protection mode,where she is afraid to give to herself.
看了书里后面的内容我知道了，意思应该是：当一个人被冤枉了，她就会进入保护模式，在这种模式下她会害怕付出她自己。