参加的理由：
1,Attending in a party can be a good emotional release,and it helps you to let go the stress of work and study as well.esp.after spending a extremely busy week of endless classes or deadlines,a fabulous party does make a difference.
2,It's also a good way to find somebody new at nightclubs or at school dances.You can make your new friends and get information of a better job or something.And other kinds of parties like holiday parties and other social activities can contribute to building community.
3,it's a good way of having fun and expressing yourself.A cocktail,for example,makes you forget about all the mess you've made in routine of daily life,a sexy dance calls the "real-self" out of your wore-out body.I just can't imagine my life without parties,it's boring.
4,party is a way of getting together and you can enjoy your friend's and family's company in it.City-dwellers like us seldom have time to be with friends and family members these days.so why don't we choose ettending a party?i mean,it can be a informal one in which the friends are chatting or gossiping,the families are gathering together,sharing the details of their lives,it's the sweetest moment I can ever think of.
不参加的理由：
1,it costs a lot of cash and it's also a waste of time.Friday night,for instance,can be all spent on a stupid party in which lots of boys and girls hang around,doing nothing but dancing and singing.while you can choose to do something really useful or simply relax yourself on the comfortable sofa at home.
2,I'm already settled down and can't get any fun out of a party,a so-called "fabulous party" is only a activity for kids,it doesn't sound attractive to me any more and it doesn't help to let go stress as most people claim,besides,I've got to think about what to wear.
3,in a party,you can't enjoy the time of your own,it just limit the wonderful feeling of free.I prefer staying at a quiet place,listening to my favourite music or reading some magzine.
4,in a party,you can be over excited which may cause a problem of losing sleeping,and it might influence your study and work.A whole week of work and endless meeting different people is totally enough for me,how can I put myself in a party
at the precious weekend rather than having a good sleep?It's ridiculous,you know.
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