the importance of self-confidence
There are many people nothing , always thought that his lack of capacity, rather than the personality aspects of a problem . First, to explore the question: the importance of self-confidence of a person with a personality . Please pay more attention to you , your frustration is probably because of the lack of confidence , caused by too cowardly . What is confidence ? According to the theory of personality learn to speak , is confident that he could make you want to do , in other words , difficulties , never back down. Self-confidence is an independent face of changes to make the right response to the quality of people is one who dares to take prompt action on the substance of reality , the value of the pursuit to achieve the company 's human qualities. Everyone , whether rich or poor , whether it is healthy or have the disease , you should keep a confidence. To develop self-confidence of a person 's character , will and must start with the idea to start, I believe he is a useful material , by virtue of their ability to be able to play a piece of the world. Life can not outstanding, mediocre , the majority of law-abiding people , everyone knows, does not mean ordinary mediocre . Great comes from ordinary, our confidence a little more , taking a step forward away from success , in fact, the winner is the ordinary people who have strong beliefs . However , there are some people affected by the erosion of the traditional feudal ideology , but also always cherished "rich in the day, the success or failure is life " concept. In fact, " rich in the day, the success or failure is life " concept is the greatest weakness of human nature , a direct result of the individual to give up all desire , thoughts and actions and give yourself a good reason to accept the failure - this is the life . Guiding action , when you use a negative vision to see the world , and that everywhere darkness ; do you think you can not, then you will never succeed .
Self-confidence is a reflection of the individual as to whether they have the ability to successfully complete the psychometric properties of the trust level of an activity is a positive and effective expression of self-worth , self-respect , self-understanding of the characteristics and psychological state of consciousness , also known as of confidence. Psychological self-confidence has the following features:
Confidence is a mental health needs . People have a kind of self-expression , access to identity instinctive tendencies. Confident people are more likely to be recognized by people to meet their psychological needs.
Confidence is needed interpersonal . Modern society is information society, the global village is forming , exchanges are shortening the distance between people , and in the increasingly frequent interpersonal relationships , self-confidence is very important. Confident, more likely to bring good interpersonal atmosphere and interpersonal effects.
Confidence people brave. Confident people always in a relaxed attitude to face life in a complex situation or challenge , showing a quick response tolerance.
Self-confidence makes decisive. Confident people take responsibility, not because of the stakes and indecisive , not thinking about escape bad results and indecisive, and thus will remain consistent and decisive style.
Self-confidence makes humble . Confident people more accurately treat their advantages and disadvantages , so you can more fully understand themselves, others modest , progress.
Once a person loses self-confidence , lose motivation, but once you have enough self-confidence , it may have a strong driving force , ignite sparks of wisdom , the ultimate success.
