what is the hell还是what the hell

what is the hell还是what the hell
到底哪个是对的啊?自己都弄的二麻二麻的就不要说了 误导人.
另外如果想说他妈的怎么了是用哪个了
那比如说问他怎么了是 what the hell with him 还是what is the hell with him?