你不但不安慰我,还刺激我,这句话用英语怎么说?

instead of comforting me, you irritated me
not only but also 是不但...而且...
如果用了, 意思就是 你不但安慰我, 而且刺激我
逻辑上就不对了
所以你应该用的是: 不是.而是, not.but.
you did not comfort me, but irritated me