英语：I don't like the way ( ) you speak to her.

实际上很简单.1.和way搭配的介词一般用in.“用这种方式和她说话”的表达形式为：you speak to her in the way.因此,如果用“介词+关系代词”来引导这个从句的话,就应该是in which you speak to her.2.此处that是万能词,既可作关系代词,也可作关系副词,相当于in which.在实际语言表达中,通常省略that.3.这个句子是个特例,因为定语从句引导词中没有表示“方式”的how,只能用in which或that来代替how.