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"I was at bottom of the totem pole when it came to anyone in my family caring about what mde me happy "she saide."sometimes I felt invisible.
意译是：她说,当提及什么能使我快乐这个问题时,对于我家里的任何人来说,我都处于最被忽视的那个.I was at bottom of the totem pole 原意是指我处在阶级的底部.
when it came to anyone in my family caring about what mde me happy指当提及什么能使我快乐这个问题时,对于我家里的任何人来说
我是这样断句的
"I was at bottom of the totem pole /when it came to anyone in my family /caring about what mde me happy /"she saide./"sometimes I felt invisible.