关于一些礼貌的小建议：
Manner Tips
Invitation
1） You Must Reply to an Invitation Foreign custom is much more strict than Chinese custom in the matter of replying to invitations． When you receive an invitation, you should answer it immediately, saying definitely（明确地） whetheryou are able to accept it or not．2） Written or Verbal Reply
If the invitation is given by word of mouth, in conversation or at a chance meeting,you should answer at once whether you can come or not．If you cannot give an answer at that time,you may say,“May I let you know this evening?”or some such words．
In the Home
1） The Right Time to Arrive
When invited to lunch, dinner, or supper,it is very impolite to arrive late,as it is usually planned to have the meal at the exact hour given in the invitation．
2） In Arrival
When you arrive,the hostess（女主人）or some member of the family will probably meet you at the door and take your coat and hat．In the winter time,you should dress more lightly than usual,as you may expect the rooms to be warmer than in most Chinese homes．
3） After Arrival
In a few minutes,the hostess will ask her guests to come in to dinner．She may or may not ask each gentleman to take a lady in．If she does,the lady will take the gentleman's arm as they walk into the dinning room．If she does not,the ladies will go in first,followed by the gentlemen．The hostess will either point out their seats to the guests as they come in or have a place card at each place with the guest's name on it．
4） How Long to Stay
After the meal is over,it is not polite to leave for at least half an hour, lest（以免） you seem to have come only for the meal． An evening dinner invitation usually implies（暗示）that you stay for the whole evening． The hostess often plans some afterdinner entertainments（娱乐活动）．
5） What to Say on Leaving
When leaving any kind of a party, a guest always expresses his appreciation（感谢） to the hostess．Some such words as these are proper“Thank you so much．I've had a delight evening．”
下边是一片介绍“Good Manner”的文章,从网上搜到的,希望对您有些许帮助吧～祝好：）
We say that a person has good manners if he or she is polite, kind and helpful to others. Everyone likes a person with good manners. But no one likes a person with bad or careless manners. "Yes," you say, "but what are good manners? How do I know what to do and what not to do?"
Here are some examples of these things. They tell you what a person with good manners does or does not do.
He never laughs at people when they are in trouble. Instead, he tries to help them. He is always kind, never cruel, either to people or to animal. When people are waiting for a bus, or in a post office, he takes his turn. He does not push to the front. On the bus, he gives his seat to an old person or a lady. If he, by accident, knocks someone, or gets in their way, he says "Excuse me" or "I'm sorry".
He says "Please" when he asks somebody to help. He says "Thank you" when he receives something. He stands up when he speaks to a lady or an older person. And he does not sit down until the other person does. He does not talk or laugh loudly in public.
