事父母几谏,见志不从,又敬不违,劳而不怨. 【译文如下】: "In serving his parents,a son may remonstrate with them,but gently; when he sees that they do not incline to follow his advice,he shows an increased degree of reverence,but does not abandon his purpose; and should they punish him,he does not allow himself to murmur."