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Gather the guest list for your wife's party.Invite some of her closest friends,co-workers and family.Ask her for the names and the contact information for the people she wants to invite.If it is a surprise party ask her best friend,sister or her mother to help gather the names and contact information of the guests.
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Use your wife's interests,hobbies and the reason behind the party as the theme for the event.If it's a party for a promotion at work,make the theme relevant to her occupation.Is it her 40th birthday?Throw a "Four Decades of Your Life Party" and have pictures of your wife from as far back as you can go,blown up and placed around the room.
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Choose the date and time to have you're wife's party.Determine where you are going to have the party.Contact the place to reserve it and pay a deposit if needed.To save money opt to have it at your home or a friend's home.
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Send out invitations.Ask guests to R.S.V.P.if they plan on attending.Make the deadline to R.S.V.P.at least a week before the party.
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Hire your wife's favorite restaurant to cater the food for the party.If your budget is a little tight enlist the help of family and friends to help prepare some of your wife's favorite foods.
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Employ a DJ for the party and give him a list of your wife's favorite records to play.Create a CD of some of your wife's favorite songs to play if a DJ is not in your budget.
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Purchase props and decorations needed for your wife's party from your local party store.Have fun with your selection.Choose helium-filled balloons in your wife's favorite colors,this will really set a celebratory atmosphere.
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Prepare a heart-felt speech to present to your wife at her party and make it appropriate to the occasion.Begin your speech with a congratulations -- on another birthday,an accomplishment or on her promotion.End the speech with how happy you are to be married to her and how you enjoy celebrating special occasions such as this with her.
